How to approach someone deeply traumatized and addicted – You Must Intervene
Trauma and addiction narrows a persons outlook and behavior and limits their relationships and potential of self evolvement. Millions of cases of this have been resolved through intervention. Intervention means many things. It is not only eight relatives surprising an addict at home. An intervention first occurs when someone who cares about the traumatized addict appears in their presence and demonstrates through their action that they deeply care about the addicted person and are sincerely listening and caring about what they are saying and feeling more than they care about what they are thinking, interpreting or feeling.
An authentic and sincere demonstration of caring that is real and from your heart. This practice is easy to see on paper. The effectiveness of This practice is easy to see on paper. Putting this into practice cannot be seen on paper. We will try regardless.
Through observation we know what it looks like and feels like when we perceive someone authentically cares for us and wants to understand what we are feeling and trying to say. We have seen the persons across from us reaction when we show this type of sincere caring and listening. It is in the magical part of human interactions and this causes great change in mood, relationships and outcomes. It is a known commodity to cause great change through listening. Sincere listening mixed with authentic caring.
What affects are individuals going through
The ‘trauma at birth and forced addition to electricity’ effect on an individual causes changes in their behavior thereby changes in their effect and legacy. This legacy effect and the people they helped or hurt carries on after each action as each action adds to each persons overall development. So each person has an outcome for themselves and shapes the outcome of every person they interact with.
The effect also appears in the language and the way we use it with each other. The many different meanings and subtle ways to share indifference and mundaneness lead to the rampant misuse of language toward disregarding each other and excusing each other for that behavior.
We use the language and misuse of it to rename our own personal flaws and demons into the names of the people we meet and read about. This truth when realized will lead a person to know thyself, one of the ultimate achievements in this life.
Each of the above statements require testimony and witness from a loved one. Anyone who wants to guide their loved one to recovery will benefit from understanding the details of the business of change. There are many reassurances, validations and demonstrations of caring that can be detailed by anyone who has gone through it themselves. It is also helpful to know the details of the con.
Any good guide or someone who wants to help someone should know as much as they can through study and practice the following:
The Trauma and Forced Addiction to Electricity
The Con – How It Works and Why
The Cure – Listening, Caring and Knowing Thyself
Leaders are forming now as we build Part Six Testimony and Witness, for those who want to lead the repair of themselves and those they love. There will be details of helping people through testimony and witness. And most importantly, being there.
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